Creator Of Eharmony Lost His Wife

“Have you tried online dating?” We’ve all heard the question, and we’ve all rolled our eyes. The eye rolling is because we’re usually in one of two camps:
1. “Of course I’ve tried it, but it doesn’t work!”
2. “I wouldn’t be caught dead on an online dating site.”

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Dating Site Creator Loses Wife - The Founder of Match.com Lost His Girlfriend to a Man She Met on Match.com. Poor Gary Kremen How Match.com's founder revolutionized the dating world — and walked away with just,000. I feel like a lot of people are talking about how awful this is. You mentioned, 'If she was looking then she was already lost.' I would usually agree but, I'm curious if Kremen asked her to use his new start-up website (so he could get early members) and he lost her to his own functioning dating website.

EHarmony was founded by Neil Clark Warren, a clinical psychologist, with his son-in-law, Greg Forgatch. Warren and Forgatch created Neil Clark Warren & Associates, a seminar company, in 1995. The company eventually became the dating website eHarmony. During its initial four years, the website was developed by TechEmpower. I 'met' a man named 'Peter' on eHarmony who claimed he lived in Lake City, FL. He said he was born there of Russian parents. He was widowed (his wife died in a plane crash.red flag 1)and he had a 10 year old son. He claimed to be an antiques dealer, dealing mostly in beads and African sculpture. Click on a category below and find out how eharmony helped bring them together. Singles with Children. Multiple Success in Family. So Close Yet So Far.

Okay, so online dating might not be for everyone, but people we know in real life have gotten married using online dating sites, so it gives us hope that they can be useful tools for a lot of people.

Either way—if you’ve tried it and given up or if you think it’s somehow beneath you—stories like that of our friends Michael and Shelley, who met on eharmony, are worth hearing.

SR: Did you struggle with the idea of online dating?
Michael: It was a little exciting and new the first time. After the first round, I struggled because it didn’t seem much different with the ups, downs and rejection you still felt when someone wouldn’t respond.

Shelley: Yes. I only signed up after a combination of factors – mainly pressure/encouragement from friends who had done it themselves, so I finally “caved” to my desire to date and find somebody and signed up. Unfortunately, having married friends & family ask, “Why don’t you try online dating?” did not encourage me in anyway – probably just the opposite.

SR: How long were you on eharmony before you found your spouse?
Michael: Over a period of about 5 years, I used it for about a total of 10 months. The first time was about 6 months. I took a break, then the second time for about 3 months. The third time I was on 1 month (only because I found an online coupon), and I met her in that time span.

Shelley: At least 3 separate times, over the course of 2-3 years, I think? I would pay and try it for 3-6 months, then get fed up and stop. Then, I’d cave again months later and try again.

SR: Do you tell people you met your spouse online, or do you keep that under wraps? Why?
Michael: Yes, I tell them where we met. I know that meeting people can be hard, so why not encourage them to use any avenue that is open, and that a person might be open to. Most people today are so busy that it is hard to meet people anywhere else.

Shelley: We tell the real story. It doesn’t bother me how we met at all. What is ironic to me is how we became the “ultimate success story” for online dating because it finally worked, when we both had good and bad experiences trying it. After meeting, we found out we have a rather unique story – having met or almost met several times before in our lives, and we had a number of mutual friends. Now, I find it quite humorous that it took an online dating site to bring us together, after a number of almost-encounters. We believe it’s a testament to God’s perfect timing in our lives.

SR: What was it about each of your profiles that caught the attention of the other? What made it stand out?
Michael: Shelley had great images, which showed her outward beauty (yes, I am a guy), along with her inward beauty (the work she does with orphans and her love of traveling).

Shelley: As someone who loves to travel and has a heart for international missions, I was immediately intrigued by Michael’s interest in the same, which he had stated in his profile. Since that is a specific type of interest, I had not run across very many other guys (in real life or online) who shared that with me.

SR: From the time you started messaging back and forth, what was your initial dating process like? (How long did you communicate before you met in person? How many dates did you go on before you became exclusive, etc.?)
Michael: We started emailing and talked on the phone a few times about a month before our first date. We had one date, and then she left for a 3-week trip to Africa. I felt like the first date went great, so I just waited for her to contact me when she got back to get a feeling of what she thought. So, it was probably 2 dates when we both felt as if this was a long-term relationship.

Shelley: As far as I remember, it happened pretty fast. We started communicating via eharmony in June, exchanged personal email addresses within a week or two, and he called to ask me out for a first date on July 5. After that, it went pretty fast. Although we lived about an hour and a half apart and were both out of town on different trips right after we met, we communicated frequently. I think he told me he loved me within 6-7 weeks of our first date (which sounds crazy now!), but we both knew how different this relationship was from anything we had experienced in the past.

SR: eharmony is one of the higher-priced online dating sites. Do you think it was worth it?
Michael: I found an amazing woman, so yes, I feel like in the end it was worth it.

Shelley: Now, I know it was worth it because I met Michael through the site. However, it was the only site I ever tried, so I wouldn’t be able to say if it was better (or more worth the money) than another dating site.

SR: What are some tips you’d offer other Christians who are online dating? Are there things you wish you’d done differently?
Michael: 1) Be honest about everything. It is hard to filter through a lot of people on a lot of different parameters if they are not honest about anything.
2) Also, respond to people when they show an interest, and let them know whether or not you are interested (even if that means emailing them a couple of times to figure it out).
3) If you get too many requests for people you are incompatible with, then change your settings.
4) Take a break if you need to.
5) Don’t only use online… get out and meet people too.

I would probably not have done much differently. Maybe change the settings on my account, or redo the personality test (which made a difference as I had changed some over the few years I used it).

Shelley: This is a hard question for me to answer because I know how difficult all dating can be, whether or not you meet a person online. However, I would tell people to keep an open mind about online dating, and I would encourage them to not be afraid of it. It has become so much more common for individuals to meet this way, either for a long-term relationship or eventually marriage. I have never met anyone who acted negatively about how I met Michael. In fact, it’s often just the opposite – people are excited that it worked out for us! Regardless of how you choose to date, I would agree with Michael. Be honest, always. Writing an un-truth on your online profile, just like telling a fib in real life, never works out well.

While I did get frustrated with the whole online dating process on numerous occasions during my experience, I don’t think I would change anything now, looking back. I tried dating a few different guys through the site, which didn’t work out. But, because I was honest about my own information and what I was looking for, it eventually lead me to Michael. For which, I am now continually thankful.

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When my sister and her (now) husband got engaged, they played a fun game and got on eHarmony to see if it would match them up. It did.

I thought that was cool, so while Emily and I were dating I did the same thing. We filled out the long survey. Emily immediately got matched up with dozens of people. It was really awkward when it matched her up with a friend of ours.

When I got to the final page of the survey a screen popped up that basically said:

We’re sure you are a great person, but we don’t think we can match your unique personality up with anyone.

Yes friends, I got rejected by eHarmony.

This morning I was having one of those faith lapses when I wondered if God really is guiding me.

I thought about Emily.

What an amazing thing God did putting us together. I didn’t know what I had when we first got married. She’s amazing. I am not smart enough to have matched myself with such a perfect fit. Apparently eHarmony isn’t either.

But God knew. And he knows.

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I always find myself doubting God’s goodness. I’m a fool for doing it, I know. He has never not delivered on his promises. My job is to constantly remind myself of his faithfulness and goodness.

If you are going to live courageously I think you need to keep a few reminders of God’s goodness around that you can constantly point to when you get discouraged. Thankfully, I have an amazing wife who is a walking reminder of how amazing God is. I’m sure you have your own bunch of reminders around you.

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God didn’t bring you this far to ditch you. Remember his faithfulness in the past. Stay encouraged. He’s still got your back.

Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Ephesians 3:20-21

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P.S. For the record, even though they rejected me, I’m a huge fan of eHarmony. I know lots of great people who met on that site. 🙂